I don’t know about you but I am so fed up with this grey wet weather. I am desperate for some sunshine. Which is supposedly arriving next week. I will believe it when I see it.
Until it arrives all I can do is dream about my holiday to Italy in May and browse the shops for beachwear.
It’s been a few years since I last had a proper, lay on the beach, type of holiday. In fact I think it was my honeymoon, nearly three years ago.
I am in desperate need of new holiday clothes and beachwear as I am two stone lighter than I was back then. I have the basics sorted. Denim shorts, simple tees and vest tops and plenty of summer footwear. But I need dresses for both the day and evening.
First I am concentrating on daywear. And simple dresses to throw on over a bikini. To wear to breakfast and so that I can walk from beach to bar with a little dignity. You know the type of dress I mean.
Normally I am quite conservative in my style but on holiday I am always happy to be a little more adventurous and I have found some fabulous dresses online.
The first selection are all from Asos, which I think is THE best place to look for something different for holidays.
I would wear any of these dresses and I currently have four sitting in my basket waiting for me to decide which one to buy.
I haven’t seen as many that I love on the High Street. But here are a small number that I think are lovely.
I have bought the dress above from Accessorize. It’s red for one thing and I wanted a short dress as well as a midi/maxi. It really is a gorgeous dress. I absolutely love it.
Next are always a good place to shop for beachwear. They always haveva great selection. These are just a few. I saw the first dress below earlier in the week. It looks better in store than on the website. It’s quite vibrant and also roomy. Just what you need to hide the holiday belly. And for £18 you can’t go wrong.
I absolutely love these three from River Island. Look at that yellow. Pure sunshine.
I wouldn’t really opt for black as daywear on holiday but I know plenty do. I thought this dress from Matalan was nice if you prefer darker colours. It has lovely detailing on the neckline and a hanky hem and is a bargain at £16
Matalan have a large collection of Kaftans at very reasonable prices including this full length version for £18.
Lastly something completely different from Zara. This looks stunning and very expensive but is only £29.99. I can just picture it teamed with gold sandals and lots of bangles.
So now all I have to do is decide which one (or maybe two) to buy. Which is your favourite? Or have you found something that I have missed. If so please share xx
It has been a while since I did any major clothes shopping. If you read my previous post you will know that my financial situation has been somewhat challenging these last couple of years since taking a big pay cut when I left London. I am happy to say that things have now changed this month following a promotion and pay rise, and after six months of having to jump through various hoops the money is finally in my bank account. Whoop whoop !!
Last weekend I had a major wardrobe clear out. I have been making do with old clothes for the last few years, much of which have seen better days or were too big. After getting rid of everything that was no longer fit to wear I made a list of items that I needed/wanted, to replace old favourites or update my style.
Pay day came along on Friday and I didn’t waste any time in getting online to indulge in a little retail therapy. There are some lovely items in the shops at the moment and I could have bought hundreds of new things, but I have tried to stick to my list and only buy things that I know I am going to get a lot of wear out of.
So here is a round up of my purchases.
NEXT – SALE
I didn’t buy too much. Just a couple of items that were on my wish list. Black leather boots to replace an old worn out pair. Red shoes to replace ones that I have but don’t wear because they hurt, red boots… because I have wanted a pair for ages and a couple of work items to replace those that no longer fit me.
NEXT – FULL PRICE
Whilst shopping online for Sale items I also may have purchased a few non-sale items for Spring/Summer. A couple of the items are for my up and coming holiday to Italy in May and the others are for work as I have been wearing the same old work clothes for about four years now. I also always seem to struggle to find nice smart outfits for the warmer weather. I am looking forward to wearing the grey crop trousers with the pink jacket and a simple white white top.
I always see things I want in HM and I had to be very restrained when I was filling up my online basket. The few things I bought will all be staple wardrobe items over the next few months. There are so many different ways in which these items can be worn and I know that each one of them will compliment other items in my wardrobe. I am hoping the white polka dot skirt does not disappoint. I am slightly apprehensive to see if the material is thick enough or whether I will be flashing my knickers, I am also not sure if the yellow floral skirt is me… but I thought I would give it a try. You never know it may be the way for me to finally embrace florals.
I have been looking for a short chunky cardigan for Summer evenings. I looked at several in neutral colours but I wear a a lot of denim and black or white so I really wanted something colourful. This was in the sale and it will go well with pretty much everything in my wardrobe.
I could not resist this little summer dress. I was looking to replace an old (too big) beach dress that I bought from Primark over three years ago. This was a little more expensive but it is one of those things that will last and not look too dated over time.
Everyone knows that I love jeans. They are my staple wardrobe item and I have so many pairs. All in different colours and fits. The first pair of jeans I bought when I started working at 17 was a pair of men’s Levi 501’s, from a Vintage Shop in Covent Garden. I wore them constantly for about 10 years until they literally fell apart and I have wanted a new pair of Levi’s for years. Last week I had a big clear out of my jeans. Many are two sizes too big but I have continued to wear them with a belt done up tight. But now that I have a little spare money I want to invest in some new ones over the course of this year. So I am starting with replacing my light blue skinny jeans as they are the ones I wear the most in the Summer months. I looked around and nearly opted for a cheap pair from HM then after I saw the lovely @chloelovestoshop wearing a pair of Levis on Instagram I thought I would take a look. These are the ripped skinny and I found them on http://www.very.co.uk in the sale for £46.75 reduced from £85.00. Bargain !!
My final item was purchased while ordering a new rug. As you do!! This was not on my shopping list. It just happened to catch my eye. You can never have too many white tee’s can you. La Redoute have 40% off at the moment so this t-shirt, which is very similar to the Top Shop one, only cost me £7.
So that is my weekend shopping haul. I think my bank account has taken a little bit of a hammering. But I have worked hard over the last two years and I think I deserve a little treat. However, old habits die hard and I am still being very careful about what I buy, which is why there is a definite colour theme going on in my shopping basket. I know which colours suit me so I tend to stick to them. Which means that 90% of my wardrobe is made up of black, white, navy, denim, pink and red.
Deliveries should start arriving over the next few days so I will take a few outfit pics and pop them on my Instagram account, before I decide what stays and what goes back. The trouble with online shopping is I never know what size to buy or what the material looks and feels like. I am hoping there are not going to be too many disappointments.
Have you been making any new purchases for Spring and Summer? If so I would love to hear about what you have been buying. Maybe I have missed a fabulous item that will fit my wardrobe. I am on the hunt for new black and navy slim fit trousers for work. But I don’t want to buy online as I want to be sure of a good fit. So my next shopping haul will be in a couple of weeks when I venture to that shopping haven, known as Bluewater.
Over the last two years my love of clothes and fashion has been hindered by my financial situation. We moved out of London to live in the Kent countryside, buying a doer upper in a lovely Village. At the same time I made the decision to leave a well paid job in the West End and embrace a new career, as a School Business Manager, in a Primary School close to home. But this came at a price. A big one. In the form of a double figure pay cut. The reduction in my income didn’t really hit home straight away. For the first six months I carried on spending as normal, most of which was aided by my flexible friend. It soon became evident that this was not sustainable and that I had to change my mindset and my shopping habits. So I went cold turkey and just stopped shopping. It wasn’t easy. In fact it was damn hard not to be tempted by all the lovely clothes being showcased on Instagram. But I dug my heels in and shopped my wardrobe. Sometimes it was fun rediscovering old clothes and finding new ways to wear things. But on the whole, for someone like me who has always loved clothes, it was somewhat depressing and at times did have a detrimental effect on my mental health. I know this sounds silly but my clothes are an extension of me and how I feel about myself. Since a young age I always had an interest in clothes and fashion. My grandmother was always very glamorous. She was also a dressmaker on Saville Row. She would often bring home little scraps of the most exquisite material and make clothes for me or my dolls. I had the best dressed Sindy in town. This is where my love of clothes started and I quickly came to realise how good nice clothes made me feel. I didn’t have a lot of confidence when I was young, my self-esteem was affected by my Mum’s mental health issues and so clothes became a way to express myself and feel more confident. Every penny I earned during my teenage years was spent on clothes. During my Single Parent years when money was tight I used to shop cheaply at Primark and also reinvent old clothes, customising them to make them more relevant to current trends. I had the time to do that then and it was fun. But this time around that didn’t really appeal so much. Much more fun in my late 20’s than when I knowing on the door of 50.
The last 18 months have been a bit of a chore at times and has left me hating my wardrobe. But it has taught me many things. I have discovered that I don’t need as many clothes as I think I do (although I still have far too many) and also that I don’t need to buy into every trend or wear what everyone else is wearing. That said, I have missed being able to buy those statement pieces each season when I have managed to shop for clothes because I have saved a little or been given a gift card, I have had to be more mindful about my purchases. Which really has taken the fun out of clothes shopping.
But I am now approaching exciting times. My financial situation is about to change again. Over the last two years I have been working tirelessly in my new career and I have spent hours studying for professional qualifications. But it has finally paid off. I have been rewarded with a promotion and a pretty impressive pay rise. So from the end of this Month I will be back in a position where I can shop again. I should be over the moon. And I am excited but also a little apprehensive.
Obviously the first instinct when you have been on a self imposed spending ban is to rush out to the shops and indulge in the thrill of buying lots of new clothes. And although part of me wants to do this, the other part is telling me to steer clear from the shops. So rather than let the devil on my shoulder win and end up spending my hard earned cash on a load of clothes that I probably don’t need and won’t wear after six months I decided to take some time to really think about my wardrobe and what I want it to look like. And that is exactly what I have been doing with the help of this book.
I have been totally immersed in it all week. It is probably one of the best Self Help books that I have ever read (and I have read a few). Through a series of questions and research it makes you evaluate styles that you love and works to help you identify your own personal style. It has you thinking about lifestyle, colours, silhouettes and material. It also requires you to review your current wardrobe and think about how to create a new one that reflects your own personal style using key prices but also encompassing current trends through a small number of statement pieces.
It has been a little like studying for an exam but I have thoroughly enjoyed reading the book. And It actually wasn’t that hard to identify my signature style as it’s been staring me in the face every time I open my wardrobe. But I think even when you subconsciously know what you like to wear and what suits you it’s easy to get sidetracked into buying what’s in fashion even if it is not something you normally like to wear.
These are some of the images I saved to my Pinterest Board (aptly named Curated Closet) that showcase the styles I love and will be building my wardrobe around. If you want to have a browse at more images that I chose pop over and pay me a visit on Pinterest. My account name is Wiggle When you Walk.
So now that I have identified my personal style, created a list of outfit combinations and listed all the key pieces I need, the next step is to go through what I already own. And that’s my plan for today. I am going to make full use of the fact my husband is away on business and literally empty my whole wardrobe (including shoes) onto my dressing room floor and start the huge clear out. I will be getting rid of anything that doesn’t suit me or my personal style or doesn’t fit me (I am still wearing old clothes that are one or two sizes too big because I couldn’t afford to replace them). It’s going to be a mammoth task and I anticipate that 70% of my wardrobe will go. Some items will be held on to while I rebuild my wardrobe and will be replaced by the same but in a better fit and better quality, items such as black trousers for work (mine are four years old and too big) and a good pair of dark denim skinny jeans which are my go to item.
At the end of this process I should then be able to compile my shopping list ready for a trip to Bluewater after payday. I will follow up with another blog post after my wardrobe cleanse and let you know how it went. But one thing I know for sure my love for clothes is slowly being reiginited.
Thank you for reading and if you haven’t read the book I can totally recommend it. It is available on Amazon here.
We started Christmas Eve with a two hour drive to Luton Airport. Our flight was leaving at 6am and rather than sitting around at home trying to stay awake we headed off to the airport early. This gave us time to tuck into a big English breakfast at 4am.
I am not a good flyer. Not because I am scared. Because I struggle with having to sit still in a confined space for any length of time. So with this in mind I opted for comfort over style when deciding on my travelling outfit. I also used some leftover Birthday money to buy some new trainers and a sweatshirt for my holiday.
This is what I wore to travel to Portugal.
Slouchy Boyfriend Jeans – old from Next
Oversize Slouchy Stripe Tee – old from La Redoute
Oversize Cream Sweatshirt with sleeve detail – current from boohoo.com
White Trainers with black glitter star detail – current from very.co.uk
We are staying in an apartment at the Four Seasons in Vilamoura and we couldn’t have been happier with the welcome or the facilities at the hotel.
We spent the rest of Christmas Eve wandering around picking up a few essentials at the local supermarket. We didn’t venture far to eat opting for room service as I had been up since 5am on the 23rd December. After the most amazing burger, a small local beer and a soak in the spa bath it was time for bed. 40 hrs without sleep had finally hit me.